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The Truth about Ryan Reiter

Written by Joshua Miller and Sarah Dreyer

I wish I wasn’t writing this post right now.

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You see, I know the woman in the article, the victim. This relationship that the article references was many years ago, and she has moved past it in every way.

She wasn’t going to, nor did she ever plan to “come forward” with her story–she isn’t trying to “destroy” anyone. She simply wanted to get out of a physically abusive relationship and move on with her life.

The only reason that this post is being written right now is because that Sun Sentinel article has lies in it.

Before I show the proof of these lies, I want to address the Sun Sentinel because there are some problems that need to be addressed there.

They published this article without the woman’s knowledge at all. They reached out to Ryan Reiter for comment, and even reached out to a lawyer to back up his story and legitimize his response. They never reached out to my friend. At all.

They didn’t even have the decency to let my friend know that an article about one of the most tramatic events in her life was coming out. They removed her name sure, but Ryan was contacted and he knew the article was coming out.

My friend did not.

To me, that shows a complete lack of integrity.

We also privately reached out to the writers of this article, Brittany Wallman, and Anthony Man. Wallman’s exacts words were:

“I don’t think we’ll be delving further into what happened, although I suppose there could be developments that would cause us to do so. “

She went on to say “We gave him the chance to respond.”

I think by now, we all know that ANYONE guilty of ANYTHING is going to try to create a narrative that makes them look better, to repaint the picture of reality and give themselves a better look. In allowing this abuser the last word, and to not give the victim ANY word at all, lets his narrative dominate. Her voice is only heard through court documents, which do not tell the full story. She never got a chance to respond, never even the courtesy to know that something was going to be written about her traumatic experiences.

Reiter was recently appointed to the Broward County School Board, when Ron Desantis removed actual elected officials, Patricia Good, Donna P. Korn, Ann Murray and Laurie Rich Levinson from the board and replaced them with four loyal men. That is what triggered this article to be written, as I’m sure people started looking into who Ryan Reiter is and apparently discovered the restraining order, which is public record. They found it and wrote the article.

But again, my friend didn’t start this. And had no plans to.

So for anyone that is interested in the truth, since the Sun Sentinel won’t write it. Here it is.

My friend was in a physically abusive relationship with Ryan Reiter.

After a very long time, my friend finally had the courage to leave him.

Before that, many terrible terrible things happened.

This Sun Sentinel article makes it seem like there is this he said, she said argument. That is simply not the case. You will see text messages, photos and there are countless people that knew about these incidents. It’s not he said she said. It’s about the truth.

Again. The only purpose of writing this is because of the lies that were printed. When the Sun Sentinel asked him for comment, if he had said “no comment” or even, “I made some mistakes, but I’ve spent years learning how to prevent them from happening again” my friend wouldn’t have said anything. But instead, he decided to paint the truth as lies. Which is why silence is not an option.

See, this isn’t about trying to destroy someone on Twitter. When the abuse happened, my friend didn’t go to social media. She called a lawyer. She went through the pain, stress and humiliation of filing a restraining order. She did it the right way, through a legal system that is supposed to protect victims. And even though she is the one who filed the order for HIM to stay away, she still didn’t trust that. So she took measures out of precaution so they would never run into one another. She dropped off of committees, distanced herself from friend groups, moved multiple times and got several security measures for her home. People don’t do that if they’re just “making it up.”

But because of these lies. Here we are.

So here are some main points from the article.

The Dog.

I remember this directly. My friend had moved out and she didn’t want him to know where she lived (again, this guy physically abused her). She was scared for her life. She moved to an apartment building (The Manor), made sure her number or name was not on the call box and tried to move on.

They had a dog, Lincoln. Since they both cared about the dog, she asked him what HE wanted to do with the dog.

So, very clearly here, he decided who kept the dog. And important to note what she said after. “Don’t try and give me shit later saying he was yours” She could see the future.

Reiter did not know where she lived. But he found out. Remember that. He talks in the article about going to her apartment. How did he know where she lived? He knew because he stalked her on social media and saw a picture her mom posted to determine what building it might be. She saw him in her garage one day, clearly shocked at how he found her. He told her that he had seen her mom’s post

He also said he remembered what time my friend walked the dog each day. So then, he knew where she lived. But she still would never tell him her apartment number or the floor she was on.

One night (after they had broken up) he started texting her repeatedly and she wasn’t answering because she was sleeping. Then he gets mad at her for not responding and starts sending messages with all this crazy stuff about how he is going to come over there and was calling her. At the time, Reiter had a drinking problem and was clearly drunk. She called him begging him not to come and he told her she better be ready and to get whatever guy she had in the room out of there by the time he gets there

My friend was scared, tried calling Ryan Reiter’s mom and his friend (Judge Ari Porth) to see if they could talk sense into him. They didn’t answer so she called me and a friend she knew in the building, Phil DeBiasi. She told Phil what was happening and she was scared and asked him to come up and wait with her in case he tried anything. Ryan Reiter, consumed by anger, drove to the Manor, located what he thought was my friend’s apartment, and started banging and screaming on the door. It turns out it was the neighbor’s house–he got the wrong door, but my friend and Phil could hear him banging and screaming.

My friend was terrified. I know this because I was on the phone with her at the time. As she was hiding behind her kitchen counter scared for her life, I was on the phone, listening to it all. They were holding the dog and trying to keep the dog’s mouth shut so Ryan wouldn’t hear him bark.

My friend then texted Judge Ari Porth because she was scared and needed help.

Still, she did not call the police. The neighbors did. And the neighbor told the police she was terrified and that he was trying to pry the peephole open with a knife. He wasn’t coming to get a dog at 11 or12:00 at night. He had been out drinking, was unhinged and pissed that she wasn’t writing back. The police came and he ran away; then she came out to the hallway to talk to them. He was blowing up her phone, so the police asked to have her phone so they could answer and speak to him. They told him they were coming to pay him a visit. One of the officers later told her that Reiter was very angry on the phone and said he knew the chief and would have them all fired.

Check out the text thread where he said calling the police didn’t matter; he can get the call erased because he knows the Chief.

[name redacted for victim privacy]

Oh yeah, by the way, the next day, The Manor tried to evict her because SHE was causing commotion in the building from this incident. Unreal.

The Bruises.

In many fights Ryan would get physical and cause bodily harm to my friend. He threw her up against a wall and then just said she tripped.

The Door

Another time, after a fight, again, he was drunk, he took all of her stuff in the house and threw it by the front door. Telling her to get out. He woke up the next morning, crying, begging her to stay, apologizing. Classic textbook abuser behavior. Is this something a level-headed person would do?

The Name Calling

Here is text of him displaying how he talked to her during this time–the language he used was clearly verbally abusive and damaging.

The Judge

One of Ryan’s best friends was Judge Ari Porth, who knew about several incidents that happened. Here are the text messages from Judge Ari Porth the day after Ryan tried to break into her apartment (even though he got the wrong unit). He knew about the physical abuse also. In these texts, he is communicating a message to her about how Ryan knew what he did was wrong.

The Mom

Ryan’s mom would reach out to my friend apologizing for his behavior, and would relay messages from him with the constant plea “please ask her not to tell anyone about last night.” He was obviously cognizant of his guilt and of how what he had done was beyond acceptable.

The Admission

Later on, Ryan apologizes to my friend. My thinking is not because he was actually sorry, but because he was now trying to do damage control.

Ryan also shares how he told his therapist about everything. My friend says “you didn’t tell her about the physical”

Ryan’s response “I left out the physical. Don’t worry I’ll tell her today”

He knows what he did. And he didn’t just do this to my friend. He did to an ex and also to his ex wife.

The problem is, both then and now, he has never shown concern about what he did. Instead, he was worried that my friend would tell people. See text message from Ryan’s mother.

Throughout many arguments, and in no particular order.

This guy…

There is more but you get the point.

This wasn’t “he said, she said”.

This was a physically abusive relationship, with an aggressor and a victim. There is no way to justifiably “both sides” this.

I’ll leave you with this. Why am I writing this?

Well my friend didn’t want to write it or say anything. Still doesn’t.

Because she is scared that he will kill her.

I repeat.

To this day.

She is scared that he will stalk her and murder her.

Her mother, who is a lawyer and her father, a retired police officer, are both worried he still has a drinking problem and afraid he will retaliate. Because they were around and saw what happened to their daughter. And also with today’s climate of what Maga republicans will do, she is scared of what even Desantis will against her because this is was one of his picks for the School Board. To me, thats another level…scared to be murdered by this guy or harmed in some way by the Governor of the State of Florida .

There are no two sides to the truth. It IS what it IS. And this is the truth.

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